Add Your Heading Text Here

What is Checklisting? (And How is it Keeping You from Finding Love?)

When I was younger, I experienced a lot of heartbreak. Every time one of my relationships came to an end, whether it was due to incompatibility, distance, or infidelity, I would agonize over what went wrong and fixate on what type of person I was going to date next — subconsciously creating a checklist of all the attributes I thought I needed from a partner in order to be happy.

It wasn’t until I started my self-reflection journey years later and started living with authenticity that I realized that this behavior — which is called “checklisting” — was actually doing more harm than good for my love life and my happiness.

In this video, I share why checklisting won’t help you find love and what you can do instead to attract the love you actually need.

Watch now!

Ritu Bhasin wearing a white and black top, with her chin resting in her hand

I'm Ritu.

I’m an award-winning life coach, empowerment speaker, author, and inclusion expert dedicated to helping you live your best life.

Ritu Bhasin sitting on a coach, leaning on three cushions with one hand on her folded legs and one hand in her hair. She is smiling authentically and looking off to her left.

Empowerment Masterclass

Connect with your inner self and start living your best life.

Top Posts

Dig deep into your journey to belong.

Be the first to learn about my authenticity and empowerment goodies and get them straight to your inbox.

Let's get Social

See the latest on what I’m up to, what ideas and tools I’m sharing, and so much more.


to yourself!

Transform your life by ordering Ritu’s new book today.